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What you need to know about Your Personal development?

Personal growth is a process that brings about personal change. Now, what can you do to improve your present situation? You wonder don't you? Well, why not ask yourself a few questions.

  • Do you like where you are and what you have become?
  • Have you ever wished that your life was better?
  • Can your relationship improve?
  • Are you producing the results that you want?
  • What makes you feel good?
  • Why do you do what you do?
  • What triggers you to produce your behavior?
  • How do you reach the top rung and achieve success?

When you begin to ask yourself these sort of questions you will start looking for what works. And your journey to personal growth will begin.



Personal development requires personal change and it starts from within.

  • You need to improve on your self-awareness.
  • You need to work on your attitude.
  • You got to start believing in yourself.
  • You have to develop your skills.

The better you understand yourself the better you understand others. And the more your relationship will flourish.

You have to have a self improvement plan for your personal development and growth. And then take consistent and continuous actions.

You will do better if you work on yourself instead of worrying about your conditions. If you work on yourself, your life will change.

You have the choice to grow, learn, become the person you aspire and mastering your life. You can choose to stagnate, to hesitate, and remain fearful and doubtful and live in mediocrity.

You are responsible for your frustrations, indecisions and lack of progress.

When you know in which direction you want to go and the lifestyle you want to have you will manage yourself. And you will change.

When you change you grow.

I'll assist you the best I can in helping you find the answers. These are my point of views.

You decide what's useful. It's up to you to choose what's valuable and important.

It is your choice.



 "The only thing that never changes, is the fact that you have to change."

---Omar S.Tames

 Lets talk about self-help

 Personal growth and achievements are experienced by those who relentlessly put in theCommitment  to achieve excellence and self-fullfilment

You have to help yourself. You shouldn't allow your lack of knowledge to keep you from growing. Success is assured if you work hard and continue with your self education because you are in total control of your own thoughts, decisions and actions.

Other people may interrupt or rain on your parade but you have the freedom to choose your responses and your next action steps.

Self-help action steps.

  • Deciding on what is really important to you.

When you know what is important, you are able to manage your time, gain self-control and use your common sense

You achieve life balance when you organize your activities around your priorities Having goals, purpose and dreams will focus your attention and change the condition of your life. You are the only one who can determine what you want to accomplish and experience.

  • Overcoming challenges, difficulties, limiting patterns of thoughts, beliefs and attitudes.

Self-fulfillment is achieved when you break through those things that have hindered your personal growth and success. You break free from challenges and difficulties by going inside yourself to look for solutions and finding the answers

To overcome your limiting patterns and challenge the things that you are afraid of, create curiosity and get to know yourself better. You have to be honest with yourself. No one knows you better.

If you take the time to seek self-knowledge and awareness, you will discover the truth about your attitudes, beliefs and thoughts that have prevented you from embracing life fully. Your interpretation will change.

  • Learning from your personal experiences, mistakes, errors and triumphs.

Your personal journey has taken you to where you are now. It could have been a long and tedious one, filled with a myriad of experiences. Use them as feedback to improve your strategies and to produce different or a better future.

Through reflection and solitude all your life experiences will develop your own phylosophyand offer self-help lessons that help you achieve wisdom

You gain personal power when you use these lessons to direct yourself toward emotional mastery, spiritual growth, and improvement in your relationships that will affect your financial growth.

  • Paying the price.

You have to exercise your human right You pay the price by continuously disciplining yourself to do the things even if you don't feel like doing them. You have to change some old disempowering habits and develop new ones. You have to let go of the comfort and ease and get into an area of uncertainties and possibilities.

You have to put in the hours, learn to do certain things until you develop the skills and accomplish your goals. You will sweat and shed some tears but if you persist, your persistence will pay off.

  • Write them down.

Joan Didion said that he wrote entirely to find out what he was thinking, what he was looking at, what he saw, what it meant, what he wanted and what he feared. Writting crystallizes your thinking. Why not try it yourself? Write down your goals, your troubles and whatever it is that is bothering you.

You get overwhelmed if you are not clear of what is troubling you or what it is that you want to create or change.


If you find that life and people are treating you unfairly, don't get offended Remember that it is your focus of attention that is causing your state of unhappiness. Avoid putting the blame on them.

You gain self mastery when you take charge of your own thoughts and life. You can give up on people but don't ever give up on yourself and your life. You can always rebound and find another way to solve your problems and issues through self-help.

Help yourself by adopting an positive  attitude and taking your life more seriously. Atract better things in life and find inspiration from reading scores of book, biographies my own personal choice and other great written materials. Dedicate your time to watch life changing visual programs to gain insights. Feed your mind by listening to inspiring audio recordings.

Involve yourself in activities that motivate you and set out new future path. Give yourself the chance to believe that you are more capable than what you have accomplished this far.

Eliminate the negative vision of the future by letting go of the past. Start something new today, finish what you have started and push yourself forward to embrace change and success.


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